Saturday, October 30, 2010

Marriage

Why are more and more couples getting married younger and younger nowadays. It seems like everyone is in a rush to find love but are never prepared for the responsibility that comes with marriage and starting a family. It’s sad to see so many heartbroken young women nowadays that aren’t even out of their twenties saying they have been through divorce already. I don’t get it what is the big rush is everyone ready to be tied down or is it that they have been through so many crappy relationships that they just want to find Mr. or Mrs. Right and they fail to realize a marriage cant be based of the fact that you two like the same ice cream and have sex all the time. There is a lot more to a lifetime commitment than the little things. Another problem that young marriages face is the move in stage they think that they will be ok living with their chosen spouse but they have never actually spent more than a few hours in the same room with the other person, they don’t know how the people act when they are not trying to be on their best behavior and impress you on a date. They fail to realize that the way they are outside is not necessarily the same way the act while behind closed doors. So a word of advice to all those looking to rush and get married, please take your time and get to know the person before you make those vows.

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